What is your fetish? Does your fetish include your partner? Have you told them?
I’m mainly speaking to the fellas here because I don’t happen to think women have true fetishes. But if you’re a woman who does, I look forward to you proving me wrong!
Since I’m mainly speaking to the fellas it’s safe to assume you have a unit. Now let’s assume, for sake of this article, that your unit gets especially eager when certain situations occur (i.e. fetish) . For me those situations are what I term “playing”. Playing for me can be anything deviant; from sex in a local adult bookstore’s parking lot to inviting another dude into our exploits. I don’t know why this turns me on but it does.
What do I do? Should I tell her?
What would you do? Would you?
Well, to protect the guilty I’ll change a few details but the overall gist is absolutely true. In my case it all began with me asking my lovely about her sex life prior to me. Yes, I asked her what she’s done, how she enjoyed them, peppered with “What if’ s” along the way. Once I was confident that she was a bit of a freak, or at least open minded, I decided to take the leap. (Bear in mind that this conversation was on-going, reoccurring occasionally over several months.)
I opened my fetish closet a crack by telling my sweetie that it turned me on when she described her previous encounters and that I would have enjoyed being a fly on the wall. BTW, pretty much every time we talked about my fetish we had “mind -blowing” sex afterwards, I took this as another cue that she could be open to the idea…my idea…my fetish.
Then…I exposed my fetish to daylight.
I swung my closet door open and asked her another “What if…” “What if everything was planned, our safety ensured, would you consider a threesome.”
That’s what she said! Yes!
That’s my honest to God true story. It can and does happen, to “regular” people, with “regular” lives.
So, I’ll ask again…”What is your fetish?” “Does it include your lady?”
I’ll share my happy ending, when you share yours!